1, 2 and 3 Is All You Need For Your RELATIONSHIP

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Hey there stunning readers.

Ok, so I wanna talk about 3 things….. These are very important things for a couple. Obviously being my own personal opinions, they’ve worked for me because I believe in these 3 “rules”.   However, when I tell people about it, they kinda feel it opened their eyes a bit.

Maybe it will make you see things differently in your relationship or just confirm a feeling.

So there are 3 things YOU MUST FEEL for your bf, gf, wife, hubby, fiancé all in all, your partner.

1) You have to LIKE them!
And no. I’m not talking about Facebook! You must just like who they are as a person.  Step back and ask yourself;  “If I weren’t romantically involved with this person, would I want to be around them?

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2) You have to LOVE them!
Yes.  Love. That feeling you have, when no matter what they did, you still love them unconditionally.  You love them with their fat ass, the big beer belly and well you get the picture!

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LOVE is said too much, yet not said enough. It has become an idle word.  When you mean it, it’s just amazing.

3) You have to BE IN LOVE!
If you’re not in love, then what’s the point? I’m with my bf now for 6 years and each time I just fall more and more in love with him.

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My sister has been married now for 18 years, and they still in love. It’s amazing. I believe staying in love is due to effort.  Aaaaah EFFORT!  Yes, but when you do it for someone you LIKE and LOVE it doesn’t feel like effort at all.

I beautify myself… I didn’t get comfortable… I make an effort…. I praise him… I adore him…

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When you’ve got that special someone, give them special attention.  Don’t get too comfortable.  Don’t be a flip-flop towards your better half!  Be a Jimmy Choo, a Louboutin and keep it that way!

Ladies, men like it when you can keep up in the aesthetic department.  Don’t roll your eyes at me! Haha.  In all honesty, do YOU feel better when you look/feel like a slob?
Men, appreciate the woman you have, if you treat her like a queen, she will treat you like a king and make the effort for you.

Right. So one last thing. You cannot have a 2 or 1 outta 3 relationship! You have to feel all three for this person! If you want to make it work, then do it! Start by you!

If you can’t love yourself, why would anyone else?

I have a 3 outta 3 for my babes!

MuchLuv
Sandylashxx

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10 responses to “1, 2 and 3 Is All You Need For Your RELATIONSHIP

  1. stacyblaise

    Great piece…

  2. Love this…. so true, i wish more people would actually read this!

  3. Johan

    So True miss fernandez

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