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Life Comparasions

Life 01We all know how dangerous it is to wander down the paths of comparing yourself to others because we often compare the wrong things. Social media only helps to increase this unfortunate unwanted comparison. Learning to realise first and foremost that it is impossible to determine who is living a more valuable life by comparing clothes, cars, homes, salaries, beauty or Twitter and Instagram followers. Net worth, numbers and material items essentially mean nothing in the grand scheme of life and because its social media remember there are always 100 different angles to view what you are interpreting as the something to be envious of.

Life only gets more strange with age. The rate at which people mature around you from being a child through being a so-called adult is always at different rates. We all grow into a unique version of our own selves. Moral values you’re grown up to learn from your parents and those around you are always different due to backgrounds, circumstances and willpower. People have different views, different visions and different beliefs and you often will find yourself comparing your situation to theirs one too many times. This is dangerous, not only because you’re life is ultimately the only one that matters but this can give you a grass is greener feeling on their side of the fence.

This also does not entitle anyone to brag about what they have, how they got it or how hard they work and compare themselves with an added advantage. Comparing apples and oranges will show a distinctive amount of similarities but also a huge amount of differences. You might both be fruit but having come from different trees, growing under different climates and sprouting at different times is amazing. Celebrate the diversity, don’t brag about it. We are all striving for something. Some don’t know what that is and others have it already figured out already. There is no need to consistently put yourself out there expressing how well you are doing or what amazing stuff you have. There is simply nothing more annoying, nor another way to make everything you brag about questionable. Live for the moment, not for the excessive likes, double taps on Instagram or retweets because ultimately that in itself is rather pathetic.Life 03

Be a good, kind, compassionate human. Be there for your friends when they need to chin up and a gentle kick forward but if they are sad or having a bad day sometimes we all need that. If they are stuck comparing themselves to you or vice versa be sure to stop it immediately. Help each other out. Be your own people. Life 02

Once you start to compare yourself with others it will never end…. you ultimately are the only person that really matters and focussing your time and energy on someone else is putting you and your life development on hold. Focus on the right person, appreciate what you have right now, and focus on how you are going to achieve your goals in the future. At the end of the day, your purpose in life is not to be better than anyone else. It is not to outshine the majority and shine like the sun. The purpose of life is to live, enjoy and be happy with yourself and the only way to do this is to be best possible version of yourself that you can possibly be.

If you are battling with limiting how much you compare yourself with others, try these tips:

  • Limit your time spent on social networking sites which promote the feelings of under-worth rather than self-worth.
  • Remind yourself daily that every person including yourself is unique (no matter how cliché that might sound)
  • Compare yourself to yourself and only yourself. Try to improve it by setting goals and visualising how you will feel once those goals are achieved.
  • Distract yourself by doing things that you like when you find yourself comparing yourself to others.
  • Write down your thoughts.
  • Get with the programme, how significant is your problem compared to even more difficult life situations that people worldwide are suffering with today.
  • If all else fails, take your bestie – go for a coffee, let them give you a hug and then proceed to let them to kick your ass to get your thoughts back on track.

x flea143


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Let’s just say I feel, I feel that when I wrote Born This Way, I demonstrated a sense of maturity. And I feel that, on the next album, there’s a lack of maturity, it’s a tremendous lack of maturity or sense of responsibility.

Hiya Poutlings,

This is my promised blog post about the CRAZY that is Lady Gaga.

That quote above, is Lady Gaga teasing us with all this exciting talk of her next album.

Let’s just look at that first part for a minute:

Feel when I wrote Born This Way, I demonstrated a sense of maturity.”

And now, let me present with zero judgement, a few lyrics from her BORN THIS WAY album.

Here’s the chorus from a song called GOVERMENT HOOKER

As long as I’m your hooker

(back up and turn around)

As long as I’m your hooker

(hands on the ground)

As long as I’m your hooker

(back up and turn around)

As long as I’m your hooker

(get down!)


(Yeah, you’re my hooker)


(Goverment hooker)

And the chorus from HAIR:

I’ll dance, dance, dance

With my hands, hands, hands,

Above my head, head, head

Like Jesus said I’m gonna dance, dance, dance

With my hands, hands,

Hands above my head

Hands together

Forgive him before he’s dead

And, my personal favourite, the bridge from JUDAS:

In the most Biblical sense,

I am beyond repentance Fame hooker,

prostitute wench, vomits her mind

But in the cultural sense

I just speak in future tense,

Judas, kiss me if offenced,

Or wear an ear condom next time

I’m REALLY relieved that she’s going to stop with all those mature song ramblings… aren’t you? Goodness me GAGA! You’re blowing my mind with all these RICH lyrics and this way advanced music! An EAR CONDOM, that is so… heavy! You said you are your hair… wow, that blows my mind.

But seriously, if there is another album full of that “Bad Romance” shit where she just makes noises and stuters all over the place and acts DRUNK, I DEMAND A FREE TICKET TO ANOTHER PLANET!! Even though I refuse to listen to the radio, it still finds its way into your life and sneaks up on you when you least expect it and you get the most terrible NOISE, (did you see what I did there, I didn’t refer to the so-called “music” as “music”, but NOISE!), stuck in your poor unsuspecting head where she is just stumbling around and making noise.

I would like to formally let Lady Gaga know, I’d prefer it if she skipped making anymore albums as my ears are already damaged beyond repair and I doubt I’ll ever be able to understand the concept of an ear condom, never mind in the Biblical sense.

To all the Gaga sheep who love the fact that they are not alone in the world of loving Gaga *pukes a bit in my mouth* just remember, to worship someone who clearly has mental problems, may not be good for the said person in the long run, and just because YOUR friends do it, it does not mean that its ok. Remember the talks on peer pressure and all that stuff at school? Same, same. Only different.

Peace, love & cupcakes



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